Some members make it through to the date filter, then you filter them out, and if you're lucky you find a mate and get the hell off the site. (But, get this, the ads are getting too expensive.) To Match's credit, it's not like they haven't tried to grow "organically." Notable experiments include a mobile dating service called Match Mobile they launched way back in 2003 (and again in 2007), and a 2007 attempt to integrate with Facebook, called it Little Black Book. You don't invite your friends to join you on Match, you don't know what friends are already there, and you don't make new friends while you're (paying to be) there.